I tend to take a pragmatic approach to this and adopt the position that it depends on the situation. Although publically In most circumstances I would run with a more diplomatic response.
I have a desire to frame things in this way and a tendency to favour ideas and methods that support such conclusions.
I think this may be down to my first experience of dealing with the arse issue. It’s a reclining or seated bum issue. Not in full view, I can’t see it, but its making its presence felt and it alters the moment I find myself in.
I have to adjust what I am doing or its going to move from a reclining and relaxed position and become a restless arse, which is a far more threatening entity as it is disconnecting itself from the processes and seeking something it can’t reach within the moment to engage with and hold its attention.